However, there are prostate-specific toys that are great for beginners since they were designed to take the guesswork out of this type of stimulation. Because the P-spot is towards your stomach, you need to pay close attention to the curvature of your partner or your toy. For beginners who don't want to jump straight to penetration, simply stimulating your perineum (the area between your anus and scrotum) via rubbing or stroking is a great introduction to your p-spot.

It is important to experiment with different angles, heights, and positions of both you and your partner (or toy) to see how best to stimulate your P-spot. Whether you call it bottoming, pegging, or simply butt stuff, those who have a prostate gland, otherwise known as the “P-spot” or male G-spot, and it’s worth exploring. In popular culture, there appears to be an increasing acceptance of and curiosity toward butt play.